HOLD THEM CLOSE.





I feel a grip around me. A power gripping me. I feel like I have lost grip on myself, and somebody else has gotten his grip on me.

THIS IS A COMMON ADVICE TO EACH AND EVERY PERSON READING THIS.
Accept people the way they are. Be it your parents, your siblings, your better half or your friends.
JUST ACCEPT THEM. Hold them as close to yourself as possible.

NOBODY IS PERFECT. Everybody has their flaws.
You can change people's habits, their cravings, their addictions, but not their nature.
If you already know how a person is and you still choose to be with them, then you have to live with them. You absolutely have no rights to fight with them for their nature when you choose to be with them despite knowing their flaws.

Let's not talk about others. Let's talk about you. How perfect are you? Go stand in front of the mirror. Are you perfect? Your hair, your eyes, your physique, your everything?
If yes, then close your eyes and introspect. Look inside yourself. Do you have no flaws? Don't you have traits of greed, selfishness, horniness, insensitivity or anything which is undesirable? Nothing at all?
No right? There must be something wrong with you. But people do choose to be with you, right?
Then why are you cribbing about their nature not suiting your requirements?

May be the person you are thinking about while reading this, is also reading this same thing, thinking about you? May be you are both disturbed? Possible, ain't it?
Sit down people! Sit down with the people you love. Sit down and solve your issues. Don't run from them. Let go of the resistance. Accept people the way they are. Letting loved ones go is more painful than accepting their flaws.
You love them. You love them for who they are. And who they are includes all their flaws. And if you change them as per your requirements, it'd be like you're transforming them to things like you. And that would mean you love yourself. How self centred.

But yes, one thing. Make sure they love you too. Make sure you are not running behind people who don't love you back. Make sure that the one person for whom you are struggling with your own self, doesn't leave you crying alone.

If they don't say they love you, doesn't mean they really don't love you.
May be they do, and they are just not extrovert enough to show it.

Analyse people. Analyse their love. If they love you, don't let them go. Love is precious :)





                       




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